Fr. Jo's Reflection for the 28th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year A, October 11, 2026
While his pastor was on vacation, a certain associate allowed a poor couple to have their wedding reception inside the Church. His reason was that they couldn't afford the rent for the parish hall. Upon the pastor’s return, this was reported to him by some zealous and offended parishioners. Deeply infuriated, the parish priest had this exchange with his associate: “How on earth would you allow people inside the Church to party, eat, drink and dance?” The associate responded: “Because they couldn’t afford $2000 to rent the parish hall.” The parish priest goes on, “And you didn’t even have the wisdom to take the Blessed Sacrament out of the Church as this charade was going on?” The associate reminding him that what he calls the Blessed Sacrament was Jesus, said: “I needn’t take Jesus out because He too was part of the wedding at Cana where there was eating and drinking and dancing.” Now, don’t ever expect that I would grant you such a permission.
However, that God can invite us for a dinner doesn’t often clearly meet our grasp. For some of us, God could invite us to prayer, Mass, confession, acts of faith and charity, but not dinner where there’s eating and drinking, dancing and merriment. We have been raised with the idea that Mass is very serious business rather than a banquet; and that the House of God should always be reserved for appropriate events and liturgies. It therefore shatters our expectations to hear Isaiah in the first reading speak about God’s invitation to us on His Holy Mountain, where He will provide a feast of rich food and pure choice wines. Jesus echoes this same idea in the parable of the guests invited to a Wedding Banquet. Hence, there should be no remorse about our participation in the grand party called by the Lord.
Again and again, we’re reminded that the Christian assembly is a gathering of people called to a dinner, a banquet, a feast or as we call it during Mass, the Supper of the Lamb or Marriage Feast of the Lamb (Rev 19:7). In fact, the Church’s relationship with Jesus is understood as a “spiritual marriage” in which the Lord is the Bridegroom and we—members of the Church—are His bride. At such an intense level, we’re not only invitees to the Wedding Banquet but an intrinsic part of the wedding feast—His bride. Refusing to show up tantamount to breaking an engagement to which we already consented, while still keeping the costly engagement ring. This explains why the no-show by the invited guests of the parable was perceived and treated as disloyalty.
The first acceptance of the invitation to the Wedding Banquet was made at our baptism. We went further to become sealed with the Holy Spirit when we received Confirmation, making us officers of God’s army in His militant Church. Hence, any rejection of His summons is an act of disloyalty. Those who serve in the military understand this well; and it goes to explain, too, why the demonstrations years ago by football players who took a knee during singing of the national anthem generated anger and condemnation. When we sign an oath of allegiance as we did during baptism, we surrender every aspect of our lives to the Lord. As such, we must let Him rule our nights and days, workdays and rest days, including our vacations. We cannot elect to have Him as the Lord of our Sunday mornings while expelling Him in the afternoons of our life, and from our socioeconomic and political life, or the moral choices we make.
Today’s parable presents three possible kind of guests in which we can each fit ourselves—the absentee guests, those who didn’t prepare adequately, and those prepared, present, and ready for the feast. The absentee guests are those who have abandoned the faith. If you wonder why one of the guests was kicked out for not wearing an appropriate outfit, look for the answer in the baptismal garment that each of us received at baptism, and recall the words said at the giving of the dress: “Bring this garment unstained into the everlasting life of heaven.” Indeed, while many received this garment, only a few meticulously keep it unstained. Be part of that few, and start by dressing appropriately for Mass.
Fr. Chukwudi Jo Okonkwo

