Fr. Jo's Reflection for the 30th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year A, October 25, 2026
Criticism is always a valuable asset for engagement. Just as a metal blade needs friction against another to cure dullness, so people need each other’s criticisms to grow—sort of “iron sharpening iron” (Proverbs 27:17). I’ll add only one caveat: start with self-criticism and ensure your criticism of others is coherent and constructive, based on facts, and intended for growth. Outside these, criticisms, objections, and the stirring of controversies turn into gamesmanship and become utterly risible. By now, you must have observed that Jesus was a marked man, with controversies and adversaries pacing and swirling all around him. Even as a child, Simon prophesied that He would be a sign of contradiction. Unlike many who shut down criticisms, Jesus used opposition against Him to develop unassailable teachings.
Adding to the long list of Jesus’ adversaries in today’s gospel is a lawyer who injects a controversy about the hierarchy of laws, hoping that He’ll trip. Surprise, surprise! Of course, that’s what many lawyers do: find a way to win a case based on technicality. We who live in America won’t think that 613 precepts are a lot of laws to observe. But for the Jew of Jesus’ time that’s quite a burden when you add them to the 10 commandments, all believed to be God’s will for Israel. Among these laws, 248 contain positive precepts (Thou shall...) while 365 are negative (Thou shall not...), some of which we heard in today’s first reading. Several rabbinical schools tried to summarize these laws for easier comprehension. For example, the school of Rabbi Hillel the Elder taught: “What is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbor. That is the whole law, and all else is commentary.” The test posed by the scholar of the law to Jesus was to see if he’ll criticize any part of the law while presenting another as more cogent.
Jesus decided to settle for a summary, somewhat like Rabbi Hillel’s summary, but turned positive: “You shall love the Lord your God..., and your neighbor as yourself.” As the originator of the law, He combines all the commandments into a statement and adds that on the two commandments—love of God and love of neighbor—hang the whole law and prophets. The key expression here is found in this Greek verb “krematai” (hang). Conceptualize a pole suspended by two ropes on each end on which is mounted a piñata at its center. The piñata hangs on the pole provided each end of pole is held tightly by the ropes. If the rope at either end gives way, the piñata falls. Or more simply, a bicycle can only ride on its two wheels. Remove one wheel and the bicycle is of no use. Jesus teaches that love of God and love of neighbor are like the two wheels of a bicycle or the two ropes holding the piñata in place. Remove one, and the other collapses.
This is classic teaching: you cannot love God without loving your neighbor; neither can you love your neighbor without loving God. Corroborating this teaching, St. John adds: “One who does not love the brother that he can see cannot love God, whom he does not see” (I John 4:20). St. John further admonishes that, “the love of God cannot be in anyone who loves the world, because nothing the world has to offer—the sensual body, the lustful eye, the pride of possession—could ever come from God” (I John 2:15f). Jesus’ teaching counters the lie that is perpetrated each day by some media groups: that love is without obligation.
But that wouldn’t be the final statement Jesus makes about love. In John 13:34, He gave the “mandatum novum”—a new commandment. Loving your neighbor as yourself is no longer sufficient. He says, rather: “Love one another as I love you.” His love accomplished through dying for us becomes the paradigm for loving others; meaning that, love is sacrificial, love is sacred, and love entails suffering. It was painful for the father of the prodigal son to welcome back a wayward child. It’s painful to watch patiently as one whom you love yells at you. I think that just as it is law to stamp on certain products, the words: “This product may be harmful to health” so we should have on marriage certificates that, “Love entails suffering, and the measure of love is to love without measure.”
Fr. Chukwudi Jo Okonkwo

